1 00:00:12,546 --> 00:00:16,216 this is me, chadwick williams. 2 00:00:16,283 --> 00:00:17,918 and l am-- 3 00:00:18,018 --> 00:00:18,986 līm writing a book 4 00:00:19,052 --> 00:00:21,922 about the lives of the many men that l have met... 5 00:00:23,257 --> 00:00:24,558 black men... 6 00:00:24,591 --> 00:00:26,226 very much like myself. 7 00:00:26,260 --> 00:00:27,861 some not. 8 00:00:27,928 --> 00:00:30,898 black men whose voices are muted, 9 00:00:30,931 --> 00:00:32,900 swept under the carpet, 10 00:00:32,933 --> 00:00:35,035 silenced by secrecy. 11 00:00:35,102 --> 00:00:37,037 the dl man blurs the lines between 12 00:00:37,104 --> 00:00:39,740 an otherwise supposed clear distinction 13 00:00:39,773 --> 00:00:41,909 between gay and straight, 14 00:00:41,942 --> 00:00:44,411 normal and abnormal, 15 00:00:44,444 --> 00:00:47,548 moral and immoral... 16 00:00:47,614 --> 00:00:50,584 like a child joining two bloodlines, 17 00:00:50,684 --> 00:00:52,419 one dirty... 18 00:00:52,519 --> 00:00:54,221 and one clean. 19 00:00:54,288 --> 00:00:56,056 black men caught somewhere in between 20 00:00:56,123 --> 00:00:59,026 a definition and a designation. 21 00:01:00,427 --> 00:01:02,095 living in a gray area. 22 00:01:03,597 --> 00:01:05,699 living on the downlow. 23 00:01:05,732 --> 00:01:09,369 .. qualified to sing my life chronicles .. 24 00:01:09,436 --> 00:01:11,371 .. than me .. 25 00:01:11,405 --> 00:01:13,140 .. who better more qualified .. 26 00:01:13,207 --> 00:01:15,709 - .. to sing my life .. - .. sing my life, sing my life .. 27 00:01:15,742 --> 00:01:18,278 .. sing my life, sing my life .. 28 00:01:25,552 --> 00:01:27,821 līm heading to the parking structure right now. 29 00:01:27,888 --> 00:01:29,556 y eah, itīs okay. 30 00:01:29,590 --> 00:01:31,225 oh! shit. 31 00:01:31,291 --> 00:01:32,726 excuse me. līm sorry. 32 00:01:32,793 --> 00:01:34,728 no, no, no. no problem. 33 00:01:39,666 --> 00:01:42,302 thanks. līm-- līm really sorry. 34 00:01:42,402 --> 00:01:43,537 oh, no, no. really. 35 00:01:43,604 --> 00:01:45,138 no harm done. 36 00:01:45,205 --> 00:01:47,541 ltīs not like you messed up my new sneaks or anything. 37 00:01:50,878 --> 00:01:53,213 here you go. y ou forgot this one. 38 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:56,049 oh, thanks. ltīs just my business card. 39 00:01:56,116 --> 00:01:57,951 why donīt you hold onto it? 40 00:01:58,018 --> 00:01:59,453 līm wes-- wes thomas. 41 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:00,487 līm a real estate banker, 42 00:02:00,554 --> 00:02:02,890 in case youīre looking for a loan. 43 00:02:02,990 --> 00:02:04,825 um, chadwick-- chadwick williams. 44 00:02:04,892 --> 00:02:09,496 līm a journalist... or aspiring journalist. 45 00:02:11,498 --> 00:02:12,666 yeah. oh! oh, oh! 46 00:02:12,733 --> 00:02:14,067 honey? y eah, līm sorry. 47 00:02:14,168 --> 00:02:16,003 l just dropped my wallet. 48 00:02:16,069 --> 00:02:17,905 ltīs my wife. l, um-- 49 00:02:19,406 --> 00:02:21,208 look, uh, līm sorry again. 50 00:02:21,241 --> 00:02:23,911 - ltīs okay. no, you have a good day. - y ou, too. 51 00:02:23,977 --> 00:02:26,513 and, if youīre in the market, look me up. 52 00:02:26,580 --> 00:02:27,915 y eah, definitely. 53 00:02:31,218 --> 00:02:32,352 honey? 54 00:02:32,419 --> 00:02:33,754 no, līm here. 55 00:02:33,820 --> 00:02:37,157 l just ran into a guy without paying attention. 56 00:02:37,224 --> 00:02:39,159 no, no, no. ltīs-- ltīs okay. 57 00:02:39,226 --> 00:02:40,661 uh-huh. līll be home in a sec. 58 00:02:42,162 --> 00:02:43,997 y eah, love you, too. 59 00:02:47,234 --> 00:02:50,003 meet wes thomas. 60 00:03:04,017 --> 00:03:04,852 sarah? 61 00:03:04,885 --> 00:03:08,088 - līm home. 62 00:03:08,188 --> 00:03:11,291 - honey, youīre late. - līm sorry. 63 00:03:11,358 --> 00:03:14,528 l had to go to three different stores to get this stuff. 64 00:03:14,595 --> 00:03:16,196 l have more bags in the car. 65 00:03:16,263 --> 00:03:17,865 here, let me get you some help. 66 00:03:17,931 --> 00:03:19,666 trent! can you give us a hand? 67 00:03:19,733 --> 00:03:22,102 trent? your brotherīs here? 68 00:03:22,169 --> 00:03:24,338 he has a couple of job interviews in the city, 69 00:03:24,438 --> 00:03:27,274 and heīs just gonna be here until the end of the week. 70 00:03:27,341 --> 00:03:29,810 - heīs weird. - l know. 71 00:03:29,843 --> 00:03:31,245 he has his issues. 72 00:03:31,311 --> 00:03:32,613 but havenīt we all? 73 00:03:32,679 --> 00:03:35,949 lssues. okay. 74 00:03:36,016 --> 00:03:37,184 hey, be nice. 75 00:03:37,284 --> 00:03:39,686 the etymology of nice is stupid. 76 00:03:39,786 --> 00:03:42,022 well, stupid is as stupid does. 77 00:03:42,089 --> 00:03:43,790 thatīs why l married you. 78 00:03:49,196 --> 00:03:51,598 see no evil. 79 00:03:51,665 --> 00:03:54,034 hi, trent. how you been? 80 00:03:54,134 --> 00:03:56,303 um... good, l guess. 81 00:03:56,370 --> 00:03:57,704 you guess? 82 00:03:57,804 --> 00:03:59,606 yeah, l guess. 83 00:04:05,479 --> 00:04:06,713 and you? 84 00:04:08,315 --> 00:04:10,083 youīre guess is as good as mine. 85 00:04:13,187 --> 00:04:16,223 well, there are more bags in the car. 86 00:04:16,323 --> 00:04:17,958 here to service you. 87 00:04:20,727 --> 00:04:22,629 l mean... 88 00:04:22,663 --> 00:04:24,131 at your service. 89 00:04:26,567 --> 00:04:27,734 got jokes. 90 00:04:33,140 --> 00:04:36,310 hey, and make sure you remove all the dead leaves. 91 00:04:36,343 --> 00:04:38,912 dead leaves... 92 00:04:38,979 --> 00:04:40,681 got it. 93 00:04:40,747 --> 00:04:42,516 look, mr. smart-ass. 94 00:04:42,583 --> 00:04:44,818 you better be at your best behavior tonight. 95 00:04:48,655 --> 00:04:50,724 honey, can you give me a hand with this tie? 96 00:04:51,758 --> 00:04:54,094 honey, my hands are wet. 97 00:04:54,161 --> 00:04:55,762 have trent help you. 98 00:04:57,197 --> 00:05:00,133 l laid out your armani slacks, dear. 99 00:05:00,234 --> 00:05:01,502 where? 100 00:05:03,637 --> 00:05:04,872 wait a minute. 101 00:05:06,740 --> 00:05:08,208 look, l donīt know whatīs wrong with these. 102 00:05:08,275 --> 00:05:10,577 theyīre black. 103 00:05:10,644 --> 00:05:13,080 actually, under the wrong lighting conditions, 104 00:05:13,146 --> 00:05:15,916 they may appear a shade too light. 105 00:05:17,985 --> 00:05:19,887 canīt you do anything yourself? 106 00:05:19,953 --> 00:05:22,656 ltīs like l married a child in a manīs body. 107 00:05:22,756 --> 00:05:23,991 well, what about my tie? 108 00:05:29,396 --> 00:05:31,398 here, let me help you with that. 109 00:05:34,935 --> 00:05:37,304 - līll do it. - l can button my-- 110 00:05:37,337 --> 00:05:39,339 l told you līll do it. 111 00:05:39,406 --> 00:05:42,743 man of the house deserves a little appreciation every once in a while. 112 00:05:45,846 --> 00:05:48,348 why, thank you, trent. l-- 113 00:05:48,448 --> 00:05:50,284 l appreciate your concern. 114 00:05:50,317 --> 00:05:52,019 no problem. 115 00:05:52,085 --> 00:05:53,520 so... 116 00:05:53,620 --> 00:05:57,191 l see that things havenīt changed around here very much. 117 00:05:57,291 --> 00:06:00,627 my sisterīs still cracking the whip. 118 00:06:00,694 --> 00:06:02,596 l can see your sense of humor hasnīt changed, either. 119 00:06:02,663 --> 00:06:04,631 - still cracking your jokes. - chuckles) 120 00:06:07,467 --> 00:06:09,703 y ou know what, l have it. 121 00:06:12,539 --> 00:06:14,441 - y ouīre wearing the wrong slacks. - what? 122 00:06:14,508 --> 00:06:16,476 the armani slacks? 123 00:06:16,543 --> 00:06:19,112 l believe sarahīs wearing them. 124 00:06:19,146 --> 00:06:21,849 oh, l mean, getting them for you. 125 00:06:21,949 --> 00:06:23,217 y eah, right. 126 00:06:41,168 --> 00:06:43,370 so what do you think is cooking in that oven? 127 00:06:43,437 --> 00:06:44,738 - well, l think-- - ltīs a boy. 128 00:06:44,771 --> 00:06:46,673 all) oh! 129 00:06:46,740 --> 00:06:48,242 excuse me. 130 00:06:48,275 --> 00:06:49,676 that is wishful thinking. 131 00:06:49,743 --> 00:06:51,111 what if he is a she? 132 00:06:53,280 --> 00:06:56,283 - hey, come here. - crowd) aw! right. 133 00:06:56,283 --> 00:06:59,119 - l love you. - l love you, too. 134 00:06:59,219 --> 00:07:00,354 oh... 135 00:07:07,027 --> 00:07:10,531 wes, when are you and sarah gonna start your family? 136 00:07:19,273 --> 00:07:20,807 līll leave that question to wes. 137 00:07:20,874 --> 00:07:22,976 and on that note, līll be right back. 138 00:07:23,076 --> 00:07:24,978 okay. 139 00:07:26,613 --> 00:07:28,315 oh-- ln time. 140 00:07:28,415 --> 00:07:30,817 we just wanna make sure that weīre well prepared. 141 00:07:32,553 --> 00:07:33,987 take it from me, buddy. 142 00:07:35,389 --> 00:07:36,924 preparation? 143 00:07:36,990 --> 00:07:40,661 y ou get past 35... get yourself a nice dog. 144 00:07:42,062 --> 00:07:43,230 l mean, itīs like this. 145 00:07:43,297 --> 00:07:46,567 y ou donīt wanna be an old man at little league games. 146 00:07:50,137 --> 00:07:51,805 so, trent, you got a girlfriend yet? 147 00:07:51,839 --> 00:07:53,073 rodney! 148 00:07:53,106 --> 00:07:54,575 y ou are so nosey. 149 00:07:54,608 --> 00:07:58,645 y ou know, not quite. but l am toying with the idea. 150 00:07:58,745 --> 00:08:00,781 nice looking young man like yourself. whatīs the wait? 151 00:08:00,848 --> 00:08:02,783 l prefer to think, whatīs the hurry? 152 00:08:02,883 --> 00:08:05,586 thatīs right, hon. you take your time. 153 00:08:05,652 --> 00:08:08,088 sometimes people find themselves rushing into things 154 00:08:08,121 --> 00:08:10,991 that they wish they could get themselves out of. 155 00:08:45,159 --> 00:08:47,094 - līd like to make a toast. 156 00:08:48,829 --> 00:08:50,664 a toast to two of our best friends, 157 00:08:50,731 --> 00:08:53,233 charles and patricia. 158 00:08:53,267 --> 00:08:55,435 līd like to make a toast to love, 159 00:08:55,536 --> 00:08:56,937 to commitment, 160 00:08:57,004 --> 00:09:00,774 for sticking in there when things got rough. 161 00:09:00,841 --> 00:09:03,510 you know, in every marriage, 162 00:09:03,577 --> 00:09:06,046 thereīs always differences of opinion. 163 00:09:06,113 --> 00:09:09,116 of motivation, of intention. 164 00:09:09,216 --> 00:09:12,252 should we start a family? should we not? 165 00:09:12,286 --> 00:09:13,921 do we both want to? 166 00:09:13,954 --> 00:09:17,257 and yet youīre always on the same page, and l adore that. 167 00:09:18,725 --> 00:09:21,061 l-- l aspire to that. 168 00:09:22,262 --> 00:09:24,798 as every marriage should. 169 00:09:24,865 --> 00:09:27,534 and, um, last but not least, 170 00:09:27,601 --> 00:09:30,137 a toast to the reason why weīre gathered here tonight. 171 00:09:30,237 --> 00:09:32,873 a toast to life. 172 00:09:32,906 --> 00:09:35,375 a toast to new life. 173 00:09:35,409 --> 00:09:38,212 congratulations, patricia and charles. 174 00:09:38,278 --> 00:09:40,814 - thank you. thank you. - congratulations. 175 00:09:40,881 --> 00:09:44,451 l wish we could all be so lucky. 176 00:09:44,551 --> 00:09:45,819 salud! 177 00:09:45,886 --> 00:09:48,489 salud! 178 00:09:55,963 --> 00:09:57,664 youīre next, man. 179 00:09:57,731 --> 00:10:01,168 yeah. congratulations 180 00:10:01,235 --> 00:10:04,037 yeah. excuse me. 181 00:10:51,251 --> 00:10:52,853 why do you do that? 182 00:10:55,722 --> 00:10:58,025 you love to humiliate me. 183 00:10:58,091 --> 00:11:00,727 what are you talking about, wes? 184 00:11:00,761 --> 00:11:03,530 donīt patronize me, either. 185 00:11:03,597 --> 00:11:05,065 your little speech? 186 00:11:05,098 --> 00:11:06,600 all those fucking innuendos? 187 00:11:06,667 --> 00:11:09,102 do not curse me. 188 00:11:09,169 --> 00:11:10,070 l do everything for you! 189 00:11:10,103 --> 00:11:12,739 - keep your voice down 190 00:11:12,773 --> 00:11:15,075 l work-- l work my ass off 191 00:11:15,175 --> 00:11:18,946 60 hours a week at a job l hate for you. 192 00:11:19,012 --> 00:11:21,114 l had this house built from the ground, 193 00:11:21,181 --> 00:11:22,683 when l had barely anything, 194 00:11:22,749 --> 00:11:24,618 for you. 195 00:11:24,685 --> 00:11:26,286 l am knee-deep in debt, 196 00:11:26,353 --> 00:11:27,688 all to make you happy. 197 00:11:27,721 --> 00:11:30,290 l mean, what else do you want from me? 198 00:11:30,357 --> 00:11:32,960 y ou promised to take care of me. 199 00:11:33,026 --> 00:11:36,029 y ou took that vow. y ou said, īīl do.īī 200 00:11:36,096 --> 00:11:40,667 we are husband and wife. and let me remind you, it is your duty-- 201 00:11:40,734 --> 00:11:42,569 lt is your duty to have sex with me. 202 00:11:42,636 --> 00:11:44,071 maybe l would want sex with you 203 00:11:44,137 --> 00:11:45,806 if you werenīt so damn utilitarian about it. 204 00:11:45,839 --> 00:11:49,343 what is so utilitarian about wanting to have children? 205 00:11:49,409 --> 00:11:51,512 - l expect that. - groans) 206 00:11:53,947 --> 00:11:55,082 trent) hey, is, uh... 207 00:11:55,148 --> 00:11:56,517 everything okay in here? 208 00:11:57,618 --> 00:12:00,854 - y eah, weīre fine. - scoffs) 209 00:12:00,921 --> 00:12:03,023 y eah, weīre great. 210 00:12:15,969 --> 00:12:17,671 sighs) come in. 211 00:12:21,041 --> 00:12:23,143 hey, am l bothering you? 212 00:12:24,178 --> 00:12:26,146 no. 213 00:12:26,213 --> 00:12:29,616 līm already bothered. 214 00:12:29,683 --> 00:12:31,885 well, līm just checking to see if everything is cool, 215 00:12:31,952 --> 00:12:33,720 because itīs 3:00 in the morning, 216 00:12:33,821 --> 00:12:37,057 and līm supposed to be sleeping on that futon right there. 217 00:12:37,124 --> 00:12:38,559 oh, sorry, man. 218 00:12:38,659 --> 00:12:41,728 no, itīs cool. l mean, l could go and sleep on the couch. 219 00:12:41,829 --> 00:12:45,632 no, no. līll go. ltīs-- 220 00:12:45,699 --> 00:12:48,402 grunts) where-- whereīs sarah? 221 00:12:48,502 --> 00:12:51,071 sheīs asleep. 222 00:12:51,138 --> 00:12:52,539 she went to bed hours ago. 223 00:12:56,476 --> 00:12:59,012 so, uh... 224 00:12:59,079 --> 00:13:00,714 what happened? 225 00:13:04,251 --> 00:13:05,886 nothing really. 226 00:13:07,554 --> 00:13:09,490 silly marriage stuff. 227 00:13:09,523 --> 00:13:10,858 hmm. 228 00:13:10,924 --> 00:13:13,527 silly enough for you to... 229 00:13:13,594 --> 00:13:17,064 down a whole bottle of whiskey? 230 00:13:17,130 --> 00:13:19,066 ltīs not all gone. thereīs still some left. 231 00:13:21,368 --> 00:13:23,570 you wanna have the last of it with me? 232 00:13:23,637 --> 00:13:24,771 hmm? 233 00:13:24,805 --> 00:13:25,939 whispering) nightcap. 234 00:13:31,211 --> 00:13:32,479 whoa... 235 00:13:36,717 --> 00:13:38,452 am l that fucked up? 236 00:13:38,485 --> 00:13:41,555 - y eah, almost. - mmm... 237 00:13:46,793 --> 00:13:48,228 you know what, thereīs only one glass. 238 00:13:48,295 --> 00:13:49,429 let me go and grab another one. 239 00:13:49,496 --> 00:13:51,965 no, thatīs okay. we can share it. 240 00:13:51,999 --> 00:13:53,233 l trust you. 241 00:13:54,635 --> 00:13:56,170 y ou first. 242 00:14:02,643 --> 00:14:04,011 ah, thatīs, uh... coughs) 243 00:14:04,077 --> 00:14:05,812 - strong straight. - chuckles) 244 00:14:07,414 --> 00:14:08,782 y ou know what? 245 00:14:08,849 --> 00:14:10,851 l was thinking you were a pretty amazing guy. 246 00:14:12,352 --> 00:14:14,321 why do you say that? 247 00:14:14,354 --> 00:14:16,323 well, itīs because l admire you. 248 00:14:18,358 --> 00:14:19,693 y ou know, l remember when you 249 00:14:19,793 --> 00:14:22,329 and my sister met in high school, 250 00:14:22,362 --> 00:14:25,365 and my folks wanted nothing to do with you. 251 00:14:25,432 --> 00:14:27,467 - said you werenīt decent enough. - mm-hmm. 252 00:14:27,534 --> 00:14:29,603 their way of saying too poor. 253 00:14:31,338 --> 00:14:33,774 now, look, they love you to death. 254 00:14:34,842 --> 00:14:36,977 y ouīre a self-made man. 255 00:14:37,044 --> 00:14:39,379 and l commend that. 256 00:14:39,479 --> 00:14:40,514 l admire that. 257 00:14:40,514 --> 00:14:41,114 l admire that. 258 00:14:45,619 --> 00:14:46,687 thank you. 259 00:14:48,121 --> 00:14:49,623 but are you happy? 260 00:14:58,599 --> 00:15:00,133 whispering) no. 261 00:17:33,020 --> 00:17:34,788 oh, shit. 262 00:17:58,145 --> 00:17:58,946 oh, whereīs sarah? 263 00:18:00,714 --> 00:18:02,316 well, good morning to you, too. 264 00:18:02,382 --> 00:18:03,817 - whereīs sarah? - work. 265 00:18:05,819 --> 00:18:08,388 trent, were you awake when she left? 266 00:18:08,455 --> 00:18:09,623 l slept on the couch. 267 00:18:09,656 --> 00:18:10,791 what? 268 00:18:10,824 --> 00:18:14,461 l slept on the couch. 269 00:19:07,214 --> 00:19:08,849 what the fuck? 270 00:19:23,263 --> 00:19:24,531 well, hi. 271 00:19:24,598 --> 00:19:26,867 what are you doing in here? 272 00:19:26,934 --> 00:19:29,703 flowers? for me or sarah? 273 00:19:29,770 --> 00:19:32,239 - trent, l canīt-- - and the winner is... 274 00:19:35,242 --> 00:19:37,678 īīsarah thomas.īī 275 00:19:37,744 --> 00:19:39,279 y ou know what? līm sorry, 276 00:19:39,346 --> 00:19:41,114 sarahīs on location at work, working overtime, 277 00:19:41,181 --> 00:19:43,584 staying as far away from home as possible. 278 00:19:43,617 --> 00:19:46,553 but l would be honored to accept that on her behalf. 279 00:19:46,620 --> 00:19:48,589 and she sends her love. 280 00:19:59,433 --> 00:20:00,501 oh, look, l-- 281 00:20:02,135 --> 00:20:04,805 - this is not happening. - whatīs not happening? 282 00:20:04,838 --> 00:20:07,841 this, trent. this is-- ltīs not happening. 283 00:20:09,576 --> 00:20:12,846 god, look, this is crazy. and-- and itīs not right. 284 00:20:12,946 --> 00:20:14,615 l love sarah. sheīs my wife. 285 00:20:14,681 --> 00:20:17,518 - sheīs your sister. this-- - whatīs not right? 286 00:20:17,618 --> 00:20:19,820 the fact that you cheated, 287 00:20:19,853 --> 00:20:22,122 the fact that sarahīs my sister, 288 00:20:22,189 --> 00:20:24,925 or the fact that you had sex with a man? 289 00:20:24,992 --> 00:20:27,427 look, what we did doesnīt change anything. 290 00:20:27,494 --> 00:20:29,429 līm straight, okay? 291 00:20:29,496 --> 00:20:31,431 l love my wife. 292 00:20:31,498 --> 00:20:33,367 and l donīt doubt that. 293 00:20:33,433 --> 00:20:37,171 but love is in the doing, not in the saying. 294 00:20:37,204 --> 00:20:38,672 shut the fuck up! 295 00:20:42,342 --> 00:20:44,144 y ou said you werenīt happy. 296 00:20:46,847 --> 00:20:48,849 what we did meant nothing, okay? 297 00:20:48,882 --> 00:20:50,717 nothing. 298 00:20:50,818 --> 00:20:54,388 and l think itīs best that, after this weekend, 299 00:20:54,488 --> 00:20:56,824 you leave as soon as possible. 300 00:21:09,002 --> 00:21:10,804 speak no evil. 301 00:22:01,421 --> 00:22:02,489 līm sorry. 302 00:23:28,175 --> 00:23:29,376 good night. 303 00:23:32,446 --> 00:23:34,948 l love you. 304 00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:40,687 good night. 305 00:24:00,974 --> 00:24:03,377 baby, is something wrong? 306 00:24:03,477 --> 00:24:05,379 no. 307 00:24:05,479 --> 00:24:06,747 līm just tired. 308 00:24:09,483 --> 00:24:10,818 why? 309 00:24:12,753 --> 00:24:16,056 well, you still seem a little bothered about it. 310 00:24:17,825 --> 00:24:19,326 ltīs just been a long day. 311 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,002 l want to talk to you about something. 312 00:24:30,137 --> 00:24:31,271 hmm? 313 00:24:33,507 --> 00:24:35,576 about my brother. 314 00:24:38,145 --> 00:24:39,179 y eah? 315 00:24:40,848 --> 00:24:42,683 l know how he is, you know. 316 00:24:46,253 --> 00:24:47,921 and l know how you are. 317 00:24:57,865 --> 00:25:00,767 l spoke with trent earlier, and-- 318 00:25:00,801 --> 00:25:03,604 called me at work. 319 00:25:03,704 --> 00:25:05,172 he said he was going to be 320 00:25:05,239 --> 00:25:08,575 leaving this weekend because of what happened. 321 00:25:12,179 --> 00:25:13,914 what are you talking about? 322 00:25:17,384 --> 00:25:20,053 he told me everything... 323 00:25:42,509 --> 00:25:44,845 about feeling intrusive, 324 00:25:44,945 --> 00:25:47,347 with us having all our fights and all. 325 00:25:49,783 --> 00:25:51,852 and l told him he can stay. 326 00:26:00,427 --> 00:26:01,461 ls that all? 327 00:26:02,930 --> 00:26:05,098 y eah, l know l should have asked you first, 328 00:26:05,132 --> 00:26:08,902 but itīs just until he can get back on his feet. 329 00:26:11,638 --> 00:26:12,806 honey, 330 00:26:15,142 --> 00:26:17,611 if our brother wants to stay, 331 00:26:17,711 --> 00:26:20,981 he can stay as long as he likes. 332 00:26:22,316 --> 00:26:24,284 thank you, baby. 333 00:26:25,619 --> 00:26:26,987 y ouīre welcome. 334 00:27:02,556 --> 00:27:05,058 williams) when faced with the multiple-choice question 335 00:27:05,159 --> 00:27:06,660 of being... 336 00:27:06,727 --> 00:27:07,794 who am l? 337 00:27:07,861 --> 00:27:10,197 to which world do l belong? 338 00:27:10,297 --> 00:27:15,169 the downlow man desires an eraser at the end of a ballpoint pen, 339 00:27:15,235 --> 00:27:18,138 never realizing that ink 340 00:27:18,238 --> 00:27:20,874 is not an easily erasable medium.